I have recently adapted this new concept. After I match up with a suitable match, it takes me approximately 2 weeks of consistent chatting online to know if we’re both mutually into each other. In that 2 weeks we have gathered enough information to briefly “tick each other’s boxes”.
Now looking back I can say that the ones that did not make it past 2 weeks of everyday communication, whether we moved too fast or merely due to lost of interest, never resulted in a committed relationship. I always thought that you can only consider knowing someone since the day you met face to face, when in actual fact we are more likely to be our true selves via text. I mean, how often do you get a stranger come up to you and say “be my SB” lol If you’re wondering, SB means Sugar Baby haha AKA sex buddy…
From my experience of online dating, people are way more forthcoming with their intentions. Maybe because there is so many easy options available. If you’re looking for easy, you will find it easy. Unless you’re one of the few lucky ones that found their soul mate with the first right swipe!
I’m exciting to see how far my “2 weeks” challenge will take me.