I went into a relationship with my head and not my heart. I knew it at the time and been honest from the beginning with everyone about this. He’s a good man, friends and family loves him, surely I should do to?? I thought that with time he will get to my heart. Problem is that he sensed the feelings wasn’t mutual, because his insecurities creeped in, making him push something that had to come naturally. He asked me if I ever thought of him, Ofcause I did. After all , we were in a relationship. He failed to ask me the right question, whether I ever was in his heart. 
I can play all sorts of games to make a man miss me, but that’s exactly what they are “mind  games”. I’ve never heard of “heart games” cause there is no such game that exist. It’s out of our control who lets us into their heart. It happens either by chance, because their guard wasn’t up or by choice. 
I want to be with a man that misses me for the authentic me, not the person he thinks I am. I admit, I might have done things out of my own insecurities to self sabotage the natural process for him to miss me. Reason why he normally comes back after I let go, it happened due to no control from me.